When dealing with trauma, either with a capital or small ‘t’, not everyone can verbalise their emotions, or indeed their thoughts.
Very young children certainly struggle, as they haven’t yet gained the capacity for expressing through language. Any trauma, upset, or unresolved events, present or past, could be negatively affecting their behaviour and emotions, at home or in the classroom.
We all know that men and women are ‘wired’ differently, but did you know that it’s not just the neural networks at play it’s also our hormones (both men and women’s) that play a huge part in both sexes not understanding each other, sometimes to the point of having to end a relationship because don’t know how each other ‘work’!
There are so many skills and techniques you can use to increase your charisma, be engaging, inspiring, but probably most important, gain rapport. Without rapport you ain’t got nothing!